When Dances Shift Melodies.

This piece of writing takes the example of a female person embodying most of the feminine energy of both parts. If the feminine energy is mostly represented in the male side, or another female person if the TF share the same gender, the writing above of course has to be changed accordingly. 

It is said that when One changes, in any type of dynamics, the other side changes as well if they desire to remain present energetically. The other side has to adjust and grow, to keep dancing. 

In many Twin Flame relationships and connections, it is the Feminine who goes through her “Falling” first and learns to embraces her depth fully. Her Divine partner is often times the greatest catalyst — forcing her to find emotional safety, peace and healing within, to find her personal truth in relationships and life in general, to find herself, to find her path and joy or even purpose. Also, ultimately, to release her attachment to an outcome in life in general… but most importantly in this given situation of the Twin Flame bond.

Magically, as she does so, she releases progressively and in time her attachment to receiving in the physical the attention and visible love of her Divine counterpart. She doesn’t stop feeling or loving, yet she stops needing, wanting, longing.

She releases her need to be with. Her desire to be only with him, and not others. She sees herself attracting new people and new potential romantic connections. She finds her energy again, back fully. She sees life resuming. Her inner feminine has healed enough to rest a little, to be able to shed a little less during the days… and so she can have more time, more energy, to embrace more of her drive, Masculine doing and building side, as before it all started.

She feels safe in life enough to be back, she has healed the hurt. She has recovered.

Yes her life has changed, transformed, people around are different and streets bear different names but, it is still her, with an essence clearly more revealed, brought to the Light, uncovered. She walks again with all of her strength, the stamina of before this Divine encounter brought up the dark and the light — but differently, higher, more magical and free.

As she has healed enough herself, because she went to the End of it, of a cycle or a pattern — she can detach and that is when things have the opportunity to shift.

As she has travelled to the end of a road, checked and double-checked that she has done all she could, expressed all of the words of a loving heart, used the magical tools of compassion, respect, kindness and forgiveness.

As she sees that she has gone to the end of a journey with Him, even cleaned the way of what was said and done before and when less aware, when she can really feel there is no more to do or say on that road and so a part of a Path can be left at rest happily and peacefully, with warmth in the heart even, no anger resentment and fear but warmth, peace and a feeling of completion… then things change. 

She can truly Let Go, in beauty.

And when she does let go, a Void is felt on the other end of Things. 

And this is when, the other side, the Counterpart… is given the biggest opportunity for their own heart opening, and saving grace. 

And after, it is in the hands of the Divine mystery, in the hands of the magicians of soul contracts and of individual soul healings… They will catch the train or not, decide to feel at a deeper level and act on their own healing path, respond Yes to the inner call, to the reminder from within… or they will decide to pass their turn. This is for them to feel out, decide, and see.

Who knows, what lies in the hands of Magic.

But, she is Free.

The above piece of writing takes the example of a female person embodying most of the feminine energy of both parts. If the feminine energy is mostly represented in the male side, or another female person if the TF share the same gender, the writing above of course has to be changed accordingly. 

 

 

 

 

 

We Love people – ‘love’ in its greatest sense, the one which knows no conditions, or time & space limits, but purity, respect and gratitude – as profoundly as they have touched ourselves, as much as they enabled more alchemy and light in the soul, as much as they spoke to the deepest, most authentic parts within.

The Story of Soul Contracts.

The greatest gift we can offer someone, sometimes, is to not encourage and support anymore a certain type of their own behaviour.
It is to withdraw from a certain shared dynamics – which causes that the Other can’t find anymore, the room or space, that they were using to behave in a certain way. It is to not feed anymore a certain level of shared dynamics – so that people have the opportunity to evolve, grow and… eventually, if they actually embrace the opportunity, come back anew, latter on, and Realign elsewhere, at a new level.
Very often in Karmic Partnerships and Soul Contracts, the initial shared dynamics comes from, and feeds, the respective wounded parts of the Two Individuals. It is a dance between two energies, energies that are still on the path of healing and of reclaiming their highest selves.
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But as One grows and evolves, they decide that for their own well-being and self-love – a certain type of behaviour or pattern from the Other, or of dynamics between the Two, is no longer supported.
As One evolves, and therefore withdraws from the karmic / wounded thread and dynamics between the Two, they actually offer, almost unknowingly and unconsciously sometimes, room, space and opportunity for the Other to grow.
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Actually, even, things go both ways.
When one grows and therefore outgrows the current version of someone else – people organically go separate ways, a matter of two frequencies not being aligned anymore. A lack of alignment being generated, often, by the existence of Two different rhythms on a soul’s journey.
But when One grows, everything can change.
Because, by not giving room to the Other to express their karmic, lower-self, wounded traits anymore… they push them, knowingly or not, to Grow.
Photo credit : NYC Dance Project. Pinterest – https://www.pinterest.fr/pin/540713499001139826/. 

The more something is denied from us, sometimes from apparent rejection… the more we learn to Love it, and Appreciate it for what it is – without any desire to ‘have’ it or to make it ‘ours’, without any desire to melt with it, without any attachment or need.

And you’ll keep going to them, and feeling and releasing and shedding, and going deeper into yourself through it, and revealing new layers and truths about it — until you reach that beautiful space where you love without longing, where you feel without a need, where you can remember, acknowledge and be grateful, without expectations or desires, without linking beauty, magic, mystery and the importance of a past journey to what could be.

That space where you can move forward and on, but without anger, rejection or blame. Where you can choose yourself, but without judging another’s journey. Where you can have your life and follow your own joy, while not saying at the same time that they were wrong or bad. Where you can take full responsibility and ownership of your path, while not burying a connection or painting it in the colours of hell. Where you can move forward, in all ways, yet be so unattached that you still love. Where you can rise, without belittling. Where you can expand, and grow and find beauty without any link to it – yet you remember, and you won’t say it didn’t matter. That space where you don’t wait or hope, you don’t accuse, you don’t entertain fantaisies – you just keep walking in love.

The call was so strong, because it had to. Because you needed such a clear and strong guiding voice to step out of what wasn’t true for you. A strong call is what you needed. But also, it had to touch your heart, deeply. It couldn’t be someone telling you what to do, or a book or anything. Or you wouldn’t have listened. A strong call is what you needed, a strong call from the outside, but it had to feel like coming from yourself, from your core.

You needed such a strong, obvious, trustworthy call – it felt from the occult even. To help you move away from what wasn’t happy, joyful, genuine, aligned, what wasn’t enough. To help you reach your highest self. Ascend, build you True Self, become, grow.

Life Always Resumes, And The Sun Is Always Meant To Come Back.

Sometimes in life, we feel so much for someone that we think that it will never go away. That there will never be a day, a week, when we don’t feel about them. Never a week, a month, when we don’t feel that we should have done things differently. Never a real, satisfying amount of time without feeling that there is maybe another way possible, another thing to do or maybe another hope to feel.

Sometimes in this life, people connect with us so profoundly that we think it will never go away. That never, anyone will make us feel that same way. That never, we will be fully free of it, detached, liberated. That somehow life in a way or another will always be connected to it, even if slightly. That there will always be something, even if insignificant like a song, reminding. That somewhere a cord will always persist and that there will always be apart of us, even if small and easily controlled, that will feel about it, wonder or think.

But as we precisely go through it, feel all which desires to be felt, process the beauty as well as the ache, as well as the questions. As we precisely dive in the feelings, try and stumble, travel and heal the layers – something ends up changing dramatically.

One day, we end up feeling that what we thought wasn’t accurate.

Actually, all wounds could be healed.

Actually, progressively, we think less and less about it, wonder less and less. It is undeniable that something is progressively shifting, until it fully does and we eventually wake up thinking – it did.

One day, we realize that life was more fair, less violent than we thought. That it could be back in all its magic and wideness, fully.

One day, we end up feeling that those things and that story mattered, a lot even, but that it is now finished. That it has now taken the colours, detachment and distance of those other things, those things we’ve truly said farewell to.

Not the past like something which comes back in loops, spiralling, from time to time but the past like completed.

And so, we understand that life had planned it all – the ache as well as the recovery – the fall as well as the rebirth. We understand that life was kinder than that, than this process, and that life knew that we could make it.

Sometimes, we have to go through all the feel-s of something, to be fully back. But if we do, if layers are shed one after the next, one day something shifts.

Our energy is back. Colours are free, again. Music and streets, and hopes and goals, and even dreams have no past, no link, no cord to it.

Life starts to move, one more time, freely, like a bird which doesn’t have to come back to a given tree or nest, to a past dream. It starts to move and flow like before it happened, before it started, before we were hit.

Our thoughts are refocused, redirected. And our Heart becomes free, available, cleansed, green, liberated.