Feeling ‘rejected’, is actually a calling from yourself to redirect your focus Within

When we feel “rejected” by the Twin Flame love and energy, we are actually asked to redirect our focus Within and see — what could I do to bring myself more love and joy?

As we find the answer, and do this, we reach a new level of self-love… and of commitment to the self.. And a new layer of Unconditional Love – a love that doesn’t need – then becomes available toward the Other Part. ❤

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It could be or be not – but it doesn’t have to

There are some important soul connections that we sometimes call our greatest teachers, or Twin Flames – or karmic contracts when we are in a different mood – that are both of a highly significant importance for our growth and indirectly shape our path EVEN IF, at least to a certain extent, they end up not being what we thought.

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It’s because the connection is strong, that we decide to break free from the other versions of love that we had before.

It’s because we’ve seen who we are, the deepest, through the reflection of a very connected and similar soul; through who they are and what they did; through the mountains they’ve climbed and the reality of what they are unable to take further; by acknowledging a soul power that feels so familiar, well-known as well of the bigness and work of that is still to be achieved,

That if we accept to see, we grow so deeply and fast.

It’s because a love is too strong that we open in such compassion and forgiveness; it’s because rejection is too painful that we leave, run or hide.

More below – It could be or be not – but it doesn’t have to.

A journey of time, deep healing, commitment and embodiment

I feel called to share today that we always have to remember that the Twin Flame process is first and foremost a journey back to the Self.

And as anything finally happening to acknowledge that a Destination point has been reached, what we call Reunion happens (if they do in this present lifetime) when both parts are Healed — and not because there is a New Moon or an energy shift. Those planetary movements help us progressively do the work if we ride the cosmic wave — they support us but they don’t replace our responsibility to do it, & their impact on us as well as the work we have to do from the energies is always different from one person to the next as our journeys are unique, and as what we are here to heal and learn individually shows specific characteristics, a different depth and complexity on different key matters and come from distinct personal histories.

To explain this further I’d like to refer to the principles of deep healing and of the transformation of trauma.

The Divine Love process speaks of deep inner work and healing and of profound diving in the Psyche of the self – its patterns, its past in all ways, its trauma.

It isn’t a superficial journey in the sense that it takes us to what’s stored in the subconscious and we don’t know about before we do, yet directs our ways in the tangible.

Also it requires time, because only time allows solid embodiment. Yes, the journey immensely strengthens our spiritual connection and understanding, meaning it happens up there and in the mind — BUT most importantly it’s meant to reshape lives, asking the targeted souls to embody, to evolve in the physical and to turn understanding into a new kind of self-agency.

The journey leads us if we allow it — and if we don’t hide behind the « it’s meant to be » which actually gives comfort but takes us partly away from the truth of what has to be done & from the evidence of the work that we have to do — to the wounds and trauma that we didn’t even know about before.

It seems important to understand that what needs to be healed is not always accessible to the conscious mind and the rational brain, and that’s why the journey continues until it clicks – even if « we think » we’ve arrived. Thinking we’ve arrived would be like deciding deliberately that a soul is healed WHILE we store most of our traumas in the body and the subconscious, and those are not accessible and seen by the rational brain before they are.

Our emotional side and bodies keep things unprocessed and not integrated until there is a committed desire to see and go into healing, AND/OR until we receive the corresponding triggers from the School of relationships and life.
As any Empire, the deep healing of the Twin Flame process requires work, time, commitment and many stones. It employs various kinds of builders and artists, and it witnesses many storms on its way. It requires an embodied participation in life and in the possible triggers that life experiences may bring.

It requires trust, inner knowing, magic & a constant dialogue with the Stars… but also to see the full truth of the height and of the bigness that we are here to build.

Message for the Twin Flame Collective

This is a channeled message received directly from higher realms unexpectedly.

At this time of the evolution Twin Flame Feminine counterparts must focus on the progression of their own healing and feminine path. A lot has been processed already and this in absolutely amazing and unexpected forms. Things have progressed faster than we thought and the level of Wholeness and Completion now found in the Divine Feminine has been highly seen and felt as impressive.

We have witnessed the Divine Feminine working almost relentlessly on purging and cleasing negative ways. She has also worked on reaching what we call the Inner Harmonics and achieving what’s needed inside to make Her more in purpose, present, modern and full Outwardly. The balance that she has been working on while respecting her Truth is and has been admirable. She has known how to work on self-reliance, autonomy and what we call Independence — without closeness of the heart, walls and withdrawal.

She has in fact learned the difference between needing and wanting, between the human heritage of love as dependence – and love in freedom.

IT IS NOW ASKED, for Twin Flame Pairs that are in physical union or not to keep the work.

The message is clearly that the Divine Feminine Only has the magical golden potent and almost sacred Power in This Life to heal the one that they Know is their Divine Counterpart.

It is important to feel that the Mission of the Feminine is of reaching Wholeness and Healing Herself fully. It is a promise of the Gods and the Goddesses that She Is The Key. The Sacred Door.

It She Does we can tell you that the Other Half which is Her – will find its way back Home which is Her.

She has been given the sacred task mission and responsibility, the divine duty, unavoidable and irrevocable to bring healing to the shared soul because Only Her can Heal Their both human forms and Him.

It is of the utmost importance to understand that they physical is and has been since the beginning a sort of Catalystic Ilusion and Play, and in a sense that nothing of what was seen saw was real. The bond as well as the tasks that both Twins have played for the unfoldment of Ascension is of the highest mystical, of the most ancient sacred. What she will do now, only Her can do — what he did to crack her open, only He could do.

As it is said above, He will bring the Sun in Her, and She will bring the Sun in He.

We are always watching and assisting you. Your feet Must Follow the path of the individual healing of what seems to be the Feminine side of the flame.

Her journey Must Be her priority as her journey is her healing and her healing is the Wholeness of the Temple — which only can allow the return of the other side, of the God of the other half.

It is of the highest importance that the Divine Feminine walk in Trust and Faith, whatever this means. We add that the wrong direction leads in the right direction.

Her, as leading the evolution as the global consciousness and Embodying her role must be of sacred purpose.

She Must do for she has to do no matter what He.

In the name of Him and of the memories of all the ages of the humankind, in the name of what He will be, in the name of the Immense Healing Power she is there to bring to the Earth, to her people, to life, to men, to He — she must walk without turning back always in the direction of what heals her in all the components of what she knows that Her Soul needs for healing and resurrection in the total spectrum of joy and of the New paradigm.

She has to be extremely confident and walk where she knows that she has to go no matter what is seen. It is a promise of the Gods and the Goddesses that She Is The Key, the Sacred Door.

As was written a long time ago – He will bring the Sun in Her, and She will bring the Sun in He.

 

The reason why other experiences are needed

On the Twin Flame path the purpose is to reach individually & in both ‘parts’ the energetic frequency of giving and receiving unconditional love.

But to do this, the heart must open and heal in the Real Experience of connection and life.

And counterparts therefore meet and have to meet many other situations – and Soul Mate partners – who help them navigate themselves and open their heart progressively to higher vibrations of love, and release the heavy layers and blocks to love that they had within but couldn’t know about, without Practicing.

The purpose of the Twin Flame journey is not of remaining away from life in order to protect an irreplaceable Sacred relationship — but instead to find and commit to one’s own healing and freedom, through living their lives, so that at least Half of the Equation is ready.

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The Twin Flame Journey – Only a matter of energy?

On the path back to their counterpart, four main important tasks “should” be tackled by a Twin Flame. Those missions are in other words, the journey that the soul is supposed to take to reach its destination:
– Finding themselves, their truth, their uniqueness and what in very simple terms makes them feel happiness and alignment with the heart and soul’s song 
– Building personal power and a way of being in the world from there, in other words aligning actions and outside identities/roles with what was uncovered within
– Releasing old traumas from the time and years before Twins meet, and emotional wounds caused by the TF relationship itself. Anyways and in both cases, the work mostly revolves around forgiveness, unconditional love, understanding, compassion as well as the art of boundaries, withdrawal and protection from negative entourage.
In many cases the ultimate purpose of such work is to reach a state of balance with all of our important connections — balance allowing everyone to remain within the connection and feel in alignement, truth and equilibrium within themselves too. Balance or “the sweet spot” rather than losing oneself with someone else to win their love OR withdrawing completely from a soul contract because it is easier than doing the inner work needed to reach balance. Balance is also when there isn’t an “over-giver” and an “over-receiver” anymore, or an “abuser” and a “victim” but but a connection playing out based on balanced harmonics, respect of the self and of the other.
– Doing the inner work to detach from the TF connection whenever the way the bond unfolds at a given time takes us to sadness, pain, drama, low self-worth or other negative energies – meaning whenever the connection as it plays out takes our energy to lower levels. By detaching from the “level” the connection is at (rather than the person themselves) if that level takes us to ‘less joy’ rather than ‘more joy’, we automatically help the connection shift to a higher vibration.
 
By working on those four elements, we progressively raise our energy and move closer to our own highest form – which is the one that matches the TF reunion.
 
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In time the energy level that we were at “before we met” is found back because :
– The wounds and negativity caused by the TF relationship/story itself have been healed
– A significant work has been made on “finding ourselves and our joy”. This, also because in most cases the only way to “come back” from such intensity is to give birth within ourselves to a significant amount of light.
The pain that the TF connection causes forces us in order to come back to the light to find our true selves. When we don’t take the path of life changes and self-discovery that the TF relationship opens up, it is unlikely that we can heal fully — because we need to fall in love with who we are, and claim ourselves deeply to heal completely from the pain that we felt. The way to that very specific healing… is ourselves, finding and becoming the person that we are at heart.
In fact great amounts of self-love, alignment, truth and personal power have to be found, built and claimed from within — in order to allow the individual to come back from the depths they found through the interaction with their Twin. 
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Stable feelings of joy, lightness, freedom and “no pain anymore from the TF relationship” are reached at some point during the Twin Flame Journey as if “everything was now alright in all ways” — it feels like a coming back to the insouciance that we had before it all started, even if that time the life that we had was a lot less aligned with our personal, inner truth.
 
In other words the lightness we could sense before, had a lot to do with our success within the molds, codes and society expectations of our times. The lightness and sense of joy we reach “when enough is healed” is on the opposite based on the very specific, unique traits of the authentic self. 
 
As each Twin travels toward their highest self, which again means :
– Uncovering our authentic joy, finding in time and doing what we truly like
– Developing a sense of self and power in the world – TF don’t have to live what is perceived as “a new-agey spiritual life” or “the life of a healer” because they are “wise” and often times it is not good for them if their happy also comes from the sacral, connections in general or any career paths or interests which obliges to be fully integrated and grounded in the human world
– Releasing past traumas and journeying to unconditional love, to acceptance of others as they are and finding ways to relate with the hearts which matter, even if they are teachers and lessons have been learned the hard way – based on completeness and understanding of the human behavior
Almost constant work of detachment from the TF bond itself – as long as the energy level it takes us to feels heavy, negative, blocking us, causes denial of the self or loss of joy.
The path to reunion opens up…
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The two individual’s journeys actually are “The Journey”, the progression upwards of the relationship and toward reunion. 
 
There isn’t a journey for the connection on one end, and those of the two Twins on the other hand — but the journey of two individuals (which as explained in other articles are actually intertwined) and as a result and only, the relationship progresses.
 
All the work done by one, is work for both and for the connection.
 
All the things which makes us heal / be happier / build a life which is more aligned, are the way back to them — even if sometimes, we do this alone or even with others. 
 
Finding joy or healing something with someone else IS paradoxically part of the way back to them too.
 
Anything which increases our vibration and helps us move toward the new, higher step of our path is the way back to them — no matter who is involved, and how it looks like. 
 
Likewise, all the things that bring us down (including dating or connecting too much with our Twin when, and at a given time, this is not good for ourselves) are things that we shall detach from, at least temporarily if they block our journey to Joy.
 
I’ve enjoyed connecting with you,
Sophie