Your Ability to process your feelings and to remain energetically stable no matter what.


Why is “attachment” to the outcome and to how things should unfold, an issue in Twin Flame relationships?

Because when we are attached, our energetic level varies exactly as the situation we’re having expectations and attachments about plays out.

When we are too attached, if things go “wrong” or life shows up in a way we didn’t expect, our energy becomes low — and as Twin Souls relationships exactly unfold as a mirror of the energetic state they’re having, ‘me=low’ implies ‘us=low’.

That is why being able to reach Neutrality about how the situation goes and unfolds in the physical is of significant importance.

“Neutrality” is possible when one knows how to process their feelings within themselves – through journaling, meditation, nature, music, tears, cries or whatever ways and tools they may know about – and therefore come back to a state of high energy when life takes them to a shadow place within.

“Neutrality” can be attained when, instead of needing a month to recover from this or that hurtful event, a heart needs an hour or a day now — because it has learned the alchemist process of the darkness into the light. It has understood that the key is actually to allow their emotions, even if deep, raw and intense as they come and the energies to move through them until they’re released, rather than trying to silence the waves by blocking the feels.

« Neutrality” in a relationship doesn’t mean the absence of love — but simply the ability to stay “high” and joyful even if the Twin Flame relationship in the physical doesn’t play as we hoped and expected, and this ability to stay high no matter what is important and good because the relationship precisely unfolds as a mirror of the energetic state of both individuals.

If both can stay “high” in spite of the flames, the flames lessen.

What allows to stay in joy when the relationship gets too intense? I’ve seen from experience that it isn’t that much about having a good position, a lot of dollars or many people around, no. Those are not things bright enough to keep our hearts open, peaceful, serene, receptive and solid when the flames become too tall.

No, it is the connection to the Divine, and to our inner Sacred Self which allows to be ok, stable, trusting no matter what shadow part of our hearts the connection may mirror back at us.

It is by remembering who we are — a unique part of the web of everything, a little Divine spark there on purpose, a child of God gently coming back home, a star on the path to wholeness, a manifestor, a co-creator of their experiences able to influence and change the course of things by allowing and processing their emotions,

A man or a woman who knows that if they’re able to embrace, witness, hold space for, take care of, process, heal, transmute, whichever darkness the outside may bring

It is by remembering that life is and will be fine, always and eventually, because the Sun always comes back after an Alchemist night; it is by remembering, over and over, that this path of the Twin’s Individuation is only a game of healing, layer after a layer — that Twin Souls are able to be together in the physical and land their ethereal Divine bond on Earth.

See, when one knows about the Alchemist way, the Coming Closer of the Pair becomes ok, let’s see, safe, natural, flowing, unavoidable, happening.



Practise dropping into your heart.

Don’t block the feels, drop into your heart and allow yourself to feel.

If we can allow ourselves to feel, sit in our emotions even the uncomfortable ones, we actually transmute the energy and allow the healing.

It is normal to block the feels when what’s at stake is very important, matters so much to the heart.

Sometimes the more something matters, the less we feel able to face it and dive into the places within it takes us to.

The runner doesn’t run — they’re terrified to feel and to drop into their hearts.

If we block the feelings and choose the Masculine warrior mode of “I will survive”, “I don’t care” and deny it all – the hope, the love, the anger, the pain, the rest of resentment and etc., we actually feel better right now but block, postpone the healing of the soul.

Feel, feel.

That is the “right” direction, and if we can do that we reach, layer after layer… a place which is closer, so much closer to the core of both of our hearts and to the purity of the connection.



The Key Is The Integration Of Yourself.

This is a short message to share that the Key, the Reasons, the Whys — are so often about Ourselves and not Them.

The Twin Flame Path as we already said, is a journey back to the Self. We’ve already spoken of “finding oneself” and “the authentic self” but we are now able to go further.

It is about balance between the Inner Masculine and Feminine, which I will sum up to make things very simple and straightforward between the essence of the self, the soul, the heart, the core and its goals, wishes and desires AND the possibility of a physical, tangible, functioning and “powerful” (I’ll detail more about this word below) life in the actual world we are living in From this Soul-Self.

It is all about finding, in time, through experiences, tests and self-discovery, the How we create a life from the Truth.

More below ! Integration of Yourself.

Learn to love without need or the expectation of restitution.

Lately Twin Flames and namely the Feminine side of the bond (most often Feminine energies are represented by women in the relationship, but not always) has healed, found strength and learned to love freely in the ethers their beloved Twin Flames.

We have learned to forgive, develop compassion and the caring, nurturing, healing energy of “maybe they love me too, maybe even they love me as much as I do but for some reason this isn’t working, they don’t want it and that’s fine and I still love them deeply for who they are even if I get “nothing”“ – that was a big step as We, or the most “attached” Twin Flame of the pair, or the “Chaser” ultimately saw that love is also to Respect other people’s choices and being able to say “I’ll be happy if you’re happy, even if this is somewhere else or with someone else”.

But there are more lessons to learn now for both sides of the pair… mostly because love in the ether, as an energetic bond, and in the physical are different things.

Read more below… Learn to Love without Need or expectation of restitution.

Energy update – It’s all about You now.

It’s when you aren’t waiting anymore, at all, for Love to reveal something in you, to ignite something — that you’re ready for True Love.

That’s when you can find love within fully — feel that warm, soft, comforting yet strong energy of self-love — that you’re ready for Love.

It’s not that you’ve become “love” in the world or as an entity – but you’ve become love for Yourself.

Support, fixing, rescuer and saviour. Kindness and holding space. Acknowledgment, respect, nurturing. Joy, grounding, peace. Ideas, decision-making, discernment. The ability to journey. The ability to be and to do. The ability to feel better, go in the dark and heal.

When all is found Within.

When the “you’re good enough”, “yes you could become this and that”. The “yes of course you’ll find your way”, the “I’ll be there for you”, the “I’ll protect you”, the “I’ll be happy if you’re happy”.

The “I love you no matter what you wear, what you say or do”, the “I love you just the way you are”, “the I’ll support you and I’ll respect you no matter what you decide”, the “you’ll do great anyways”.

When all of those is found within.

That’s when love becomes only Love, that’s when love becomes only joy and fun.

When we don’t need love anymore, is when we are ready for True Love.

Travels, smiles, kisses, the sun, good food — just that if you see what I mean.

Just someone that chooses yourself and to be happy with you, just that simple.

No fixing, no fighting, nothing.

When all the blocks between oneself and self-love are removed — it’s time for true love.

True love comes when all the love that we need is found within.

And this is when the Flames themselves go away, dissipate. It’s not that hot, crazy, electric, tough, hard, conflicting, painful, complex, burning fire type of thing to love them anymore.

And it doesn’t matter anymore, even.

There is no lack anymore within, no. Because you’ve found yourself — and you’re Love.


You’re tested until your energies find balance.

Let me start the story from the beginning again.

So, you both met and it was wonderful. It was a while ago now. Years, centuries, you can’t even remember. It seems to be so far away in time — you’ve grown so much.

Your Twin Soul came your way like Princesses find their Prince Charming, or like exhausted wanderers find an oasis. Instantly, you knew. Could you remember? He was the most golden thing I had ever seen. His words instantly did a special BIP in my mind and I knew, it was Him.

So it was awesome and super cool. They revealed something in you and you were forever changed. They took you to places within yourself that you never thought of before. It was the Honeymoon, two Golden Heroes walking on the Moon.

And then bam they left. And the Honeymoon became the so-called “Runner and Chaser dance”.  It doesn’t matter who chased and who ran, you see. What matters is, YOUR ENERGIES, YOURS AND THEIRS AND THOSE OF THE COUPLE, NEEDED TO FIND BALANCE.

Three different types of balance, if you see what I mean.

Read more below : You’re tested until your energies find balance.

Feminine Twin Souls – Don’t wait, Rise

Woman, Sister,

There is still something in you that seems to be waiting for them – as if they should ignite the fire, reveal something again, reveal more.

But you see, they did their job already. They revealed what they could. Now it’s you. You and yourself alone.

You still wait for them to give you your own keys but this is over. Now it’s your job.


Read more below … Feminine Twins – Rise