Twin Flames : Heal Yourself First.
The Twin Flame journey is not what it seems. It’s not about you both, IT’S ONLY ABOUT YOU.
We can’t tell you if it may work out or not. The only truth is, you need to walk your own way first.
The only truth is, YOU NEED TO HEAL YOURSELF FIRST – which means to walk your own unique way and not what seems to be the easy way.
You will never be able to come together in the physical, until getting closer to them takes you away from yourself & from what’s right for you — from what you like, from your path, from your growth, from your joy, from what feels right.
Until you compromise for this love, paradoxically, it won’t be allowed to land.
Until you make decisions to get closer, or to try and see even if what it asks of you feels not aligned – you will be triggered and triggered, pushed and pushed by Life until you truly decide to rise and become on your own your highest and most powerful You.
When the time is right – if this happens one day – none of You both will have to compromise or abandon themselves to allow the Coming Together.
Most often, the heart of the Feminine counterpart is broken first through the relationship.
Because this is how she heals. This is how she reaches, layer after layer, shamanic death after re-birth, disappointment after disappointment, sword after sword – the core of the core of her Heart.
The Masculine triggers her until there is nothing left, nothing left at all in her heart but unconditional love – for her counterpart but most importantly at a general level.
Also because this is how she sees that she won’t be saved or rescued, this is how she rises and reaches her own Pedestal. This is how she becomes a Self-Made-Queen.
THE MASCULINE TRIGGERS HER UNTIL SHE FULLY EMBODIES THE CODES OF THE SACRED FEMININE – WISDOM, SPIRITUAL INTELLIGENCE, STRENGTH, BRAVERY, KINDNESS, COMPASSION, SELF-CONFIDENCE, DEPTH, SACRED SEXUALITY, FREEDOM, AUTHENTICITY, BLISS.
THE FEMININE HAS TO BECOME THE SACRED FEMININE FIRST — and this is when she knows that she has done her job and reached a plateau…
So the Twin Flame dynamics changes… She rises above this situation, she transcends it, flies away from it, cares less and less strangely — and starts to devote all of her energy to her own joy and power.
This is when she has healed enough of the hurts that she has experienced with her Twin… & her heart has therefore opened immensely… meaning she has done her part of the healing’s work.
This is when she can walk Her Own Way in life – seeing that the Twin’s Outcome isn’t in her hands anymore …. and noticing, anyways, that she loves but freely : HER ATTACHMENT HAS FADED AND WITHERED.
She doesn’t need this to work out anymore, to be happy.
SO, SHE MOVES ON.
There are no timelines between Twin Souls. Time is an illusion.
Both partners must take all the time that’s needed to “attain” these levels. It may take years, it may take lifetimes.
THEY BOTH HAVE FREE WILL AND THEY CAN’T HEAL FASTER THAN THEY CAN & THAN THEY MAY DECIDE AT INDIVIDUAL LEVELS.
It’s not all sorted out in 2017 “because it’s a One Year”. It may be time one day in this life or in the next. This, nobody knows.
Because while hearts aren’t opened — Egos are leading & and egos have free will & egos don’t always take the soul’s way.
The only truth is, it will never happen UNTIL BOTH LEAD THEIR LIVES FROM AN OPEN HEART, a Heart that’s able to give and receive love, to be understanding and kind, strong and vulnerable – a heart that’s able to love freely, unconditionally and without expectations.
SEPARATION MUST BE ENDURED IN MANY CASES BECAUSE THIS IS HOW BOTH TWINS FEEL THE LOSS, HEAL AND OPEN THEIR HEARTS, ONE AFTER THE ANOTHER.
Women embodying Sacred Feminine codes have many missions, but one of them is to open the heart of the Men that have been chosen to embody the Divine Masculine Traits.
While one chases the other…. The heart of the other can’t heal… Because it hasn’t been exposed, broken, triggered, opened.
Anyways and even if separation must be endured in the physical and may last for years, lifetimes, ages – It’s an illusion.
At a soul level, Twins are never apart.
The Feminine walks in the physical always followed by her counterpart’s energy — the Feminine’s higher self always stands by her Masculine Twin.
Twins always find each other — over and over, life after life.
THAT’S WHY TIMELINES DON’T TRULY MATTER FOR TWIN FLAMES.
The only thing that matters is THAT BOTH LIVE THEIR OWN PATH, HEAL AND GROW.
When will they meet again, WHEN WILL SEPARATION END? Nobody knows.
It’s highly unpredictable, but at the same time it only depends on both of them… It only depends on the time that they may need to heal and become, what they are meant to be — Queens and Kings individually and then… examples of never-seen loves, examples of Modern Divine Unions.