“A woman’s highest calling is to lead a man to his soul, so as to unite him with Source. Her lowest calling is to seduce, separating man from his soul and leave him aimlessly wandering. A man’s highest calling is to protect woman, so she is free to walk the earth unharmed. Man’s lowest calling is to ambush and force his way into the life of a woman.”
~ Cherokee proverb.
First, the journey takes you to finding yourself. Your core. Your purpose. The authentic You. Your truth. What you came here to do, to embody, to be.
Then it teaches you detachment. It teaches you surrender. It teaches you to release while that same love actually still is, still grows. It teaches you the difference between love and attachment. It shows you a love that doesn’t need, expect or hope. It teaches you purity. It teaches you a soft loving all-encompassing neutrality, an appreciation without cord, a love in freedom.
It teaches you a love of the higher realms.
When wholeness is found within the Twins individually, they naturally don’t feel anymore the need to either seek/chase or push away the energy of their counterpart. As Twins find balance within, the bond between the two finds its energetic balance, its harmony too – calming the push and pull, reaching a kind of harbouring. The healing that they are experiencing individually, indirectly transforms the energy within the connection, slowly nurturing its possibility.
“There is a corner of my heart that is yours. And I don’t mean for now or until I’ve found somebody else. I mean to say that whether I fall in love a thousand times over or never again, there will always be a small quiet place in my heart that belongs only to you”. Beau Taplin
It’s hard to love unconditionally, when we are too attached to how things should be. That’s why sometimes the Universe forces us to remove our attachments to outcomes, to how things should play out or look like, so that we can love more freely.
Sometimes people’s absence has nothing to do with you. Keep the heart soft.
As you move deeper into your own wholeness, life responds. If you feel too triggered by a connection always remember to come back to yourself. Your feelings and emotions yes, but also creating You & your own divine Soul Path. As you do so, as you rise in authentic power, alignment, inner joy & sovereignty, connections are reshaped. Most often if the external
is not what you wanted or thought, it is a symbolic message from the Universe asking you – « rise a little more. build yourself a little deeper. make this wholeness of yours a little more stable, solid. show us a little more, a few more sparkles, of your own magic ».
You learn to love yourself so much that only those who can love you properly, will be offered the keys to your heart.
We can feel love in our hearts, an infinite, unconditional, unlimited love for another… while setting our limits and boundaries in the physical, in order to find the right equilibrium, that sweet spot, specific to each connection – where the actual give & take feels harmonious, light, balanced, right.
“This is what I knew when we first crossed path. I just knew. It’s hard to describe. I stared into his eyes but I actually dived into myself. Nothing to do with lust or attraction or even what we describe as “love”. This was Knowing. This was ONENESS.”