It is never truly about Another. It is about the loving space they hold, it is about the heart opening they facilitate. It is never truly, fully, about another. It is about the remnants of shadow they reflect back to ourselves, it is about the wrong-reasons-why-we-got-there but didn’t know about until we saw.
Yet sometimes, it is, actually, about Another.
I remember feeling this, with the highest clarity, centuries ago, for someone.
I remember feeling this, and thinking this – and since then life has happened, in a million different ways but strangely, this knowing always remained, always came back.
On the evolutionnary path, it is never truly about the other. We walk most importantly to learn about ourselves, and we learn in interdependence – thanks to and through this magical, divine, sacred and sometimes crazy mirroring thing we experience with all those soul contracts we are blessed to receive.
But I remember feeling, and thinking once that, with this specific Soul — and even if the mirror thing got activated like madness sometimes, in all its glory, drama, intensity and fear, and even if the best as well as the seemingly worse were learnt there — that underneath all the rest, all the layers, and above everything else,
Somewhere, up in the sky or down here in some mysterious sacred room — we were only about Love.
I remember feeling that in the highest and most timeleness Truth, it was truly about Him — as an essence, as a melody of words, as a certain way of being, as an energy.
As if no other feeling of love, no other appreciation could be that pure, that strong and deep yet detached, that all-forgiving and accepting, that certain, that ever-present, that genuine.
As if no other love could be that solid, structural, sure, stable, lasting – could just « Be » as this one Is.
As if maybe, if one day I was ready for Love – for the Essence of it – then it could only happen there, like when things fall into place and a given puzzle-piece falls into its own unique, dedicated spot.
As if the highest form of love, in all its beauty and purity – if one day I was ready for it – if one day I became Love myself – then it would, as evident and obvious as magic, only be him.
With Others and through bonds with others, you will release certain layers of you that were “blocks” on the way to true, pure, unconditional love. Others will help you feel, bring to the light and release Layers of you that were in fact unnecessary for your moving forward.
Those layers sometimes were only yours – but also, sometimes layers of trauma caused by the karmic stage of the Twin Flame relationship. A negative imprint they left on you. A memory which stays, never flies away. A feeling of rejection, deep abandonment, betrayal or fear. A deeper wound that can only come up and be worked through in the context of closeness or intimacy.
Those layers can’t be released and worked through by thinking or intellectually. They are identified when doing something, connecting or participating in life as a whole. It is like, Wholeness is only tested in the contexts of Sharing Space.
In all cases, you will always Trust. Any step, no matter how it looks like, is always You releasing more of what’s no necessary & progressively basking more and more into the Sun.
You coming back Home, to Yourself… in all ways.
As a consequence, you will allow your journey without judging it. Knowing that nothing, is not synchronistic. Remembering, that on this path there are no coincidences.
That all has been orchestrated… for the final meeting, the ultimate dance, the lightest, and deepest, Homecoming.
This piece of writing takes the example of a female person embodying most of the feminine energy of both parts. If the feminine energy is mostly represented in the male side, or another female person if the TF share the same gender, the writing above of course has to be changed accordingly.
It is said that when One changes, in any type of dynamics, the other side changes as well if they desire to remain present energetically. The other side has to adjust and grow, to keep dancing.
In many Twin Flame relationships and connections, it is the Feminine who goes through her “Falling” first and learns to embraces her depth fully. Her Divine partner is often times the greatest catalyst — forcing her to find emotional safety, peace and healing within, to find her personal truth in relationships and life in general, to find herself, to find her path and joy or even purpose. Also, ultimately, to release her attachment to an outcome in life in general… but most importantly in this given situation of the Twin Flame bond.
Magically, as she does so, she releases progressively and in time her attachment to receiving in the physical the attention and visible love of her Divine counterpart. She doesn’t stop feeling or loving, yet she stops needing, wanting, longing.
She releases her need to be with. Her desire to be only with him, and not others. She sees herself attracting new people and new potential romantic connections. She finds her energy again, back fully. She sees life resuming. Her inner feminine has healed enough to rest a little, to be able to shed a little less during the days… and so she can have more time, more energy, to embrace more of her drive, Masculine doing and building side, as before it all started.
She feels safe in life enough to be back, she has healed the hurt. She has recovered.
Yes her life has changed, transformed, people around are different and streets bear different names but, it is still her, with an essence clearly more revealed, brought to the Light, uncovered. She walks again with all of her strength, the stamina of before this Divine encounter brought up the dark and the light — but differently, higher, more magical and free.
As she has healed enough herself, because she went to the End of it, of a cycle or a pattern — she can detach and that is when things have the opportunity to shift.
As she has travelled to the end of a road, checked and double-checked that she has done all she could, expressed all of the words of a loving heart, used the magical tools of compassion, respect, kindness and forgiveness.
As she sees that she has gone to the end of a journey with Him, even cleaned the way of what was said and done before and when less aware, when she can really feel there is no more to do or say on that road and so a part of a Path can be left at rest happily and peacefully, with warmth in the heart even, no anger resentment and fear but warmth, peace and a feeling of completion… then things change.
She can truly Let Go, in beauty.
And when she does let go, a Void is felt on the other end of Things.
And this is when, the other side, the Counterpart… is given the biggest opportunity for their own heart opening, and saving grace.
And after, it is in the hands of the Divine mystery, in the hands of the magicians of soul contracts and of individual soul healings… They will catch the train or not, decide to feel at a deeper level and act on their own healing path, respond Yes to the inner call, to the reminder from within… or they will decide to pass their turn. This is for them to feel out, decide, and see.
Who knows, what lies in the hands of Magic.
But, she is Free.
The above piece of writing takes the example of a female person embodying most of the feminine energy of both parts. If the feminine energy is mostly represented in the male side, or another female person if the TF share the same gender, the writing above of course has to be changed accordingly.
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You need to keep walking toward a Vision, even if not manifested yet.