This piece of writing takes the example of a female person embodying most of the feminine energy of both parts. If the feminine energy is mostly represented in the male side, or another female person if the TF share the same gender, the writing above of course has to be changed accordingly.
It is said that when One changes, in any type of dynamics, the other side changes as well if they desire to remain present energetically. The other side has to adjust and grow, to keep dancing.
In many Twin Flame relationships and connections, it is the Feminine who goes through her “Falling” first and learns to embraces her depth fully. Her Divine partner is often times the greatest catalyst — forcing her to find emotional safety, peace and healing within, to find her personal truth in relationships and life in general, to find herself, to find her path and joy or even purpose. Also, ultimately, to release her attachment to an outcome in life in general… but most importantly in this given situation of the Twin Flame bond.
Magically, as she does so, she releases progressively and in time her attachment to receiving in the physical the attention and visible love of her Divine counterpart. She doesn’t stop feeling or loving, yet she stops needing, wanting, longing.
She releases her need to be with. Her desire to be only with him, and not others. She sees herself attracting new people and new potential romantic connections. She finds her energy again, back fully. She sees life resuming. Her inner feminine has healed enough to rest a little, to be able to shed a little less during the days… and so she can have more time, more energy, to embrace more of her drive, Masculine doing and building side, as before it all started.
She feels safe in life enough to be back, she has healed the hurt. She has recovered.
Yes her life has changed, transformed, people around are different and streets bear different names but, it is still her, with an essence clearly more revealed, brought to the Light, uncovered. She walks again with all of her strength, the stamina of before this Divine encounter brought up the dark and the light — but differently, higher, more magical and free.
As she has healed enough herself, because she went to the End of it, of a cycle or a pattern — she can detach and that is when things have the opportunity to shift.
As she has travelled to the end of a road, checked and double-checked that she has done all she could, expressed all of the words of a loving heart, used the magical tools of compassion, respect, kindness and forgiveness.
As she sees that she has gone to the end of a journey with Him, even cleaned the way of what was said and done before and when less aware, when she can really feel there is no more to do or say on that road and so a part of a Path can be left at rest happily and peacefully, with warmth in the heart even, no anger resentment and fear but warmth, peace and a feeling of completion… then things change.
She can truly Let Go, in beauty.
And when she does let go, a Void is felt on the other end of Things.
And this is when, the other side, the Counterpart… is given the biggest opportunity for their own heart opening, and saving grace.
And after, it is in the hands of the Divine mystery, in the hands of the magicians of soul contracts and of individual soul healings… They will catch the train or not, decide to feel at a deeper level and act on their own healing path, respond Yes to the inner call, to the reminder from within… or they will decide to pass their turn. This is for them to feel out, decide, and see.
Who knows, what lies in the hands of Magic.
But, she is Free.
The above piece of writing takes the example of a female person embodying most of the feminine energy of both parts. If the feminine energy is mostly represented in the male side, or another female person if the TF share the same gender, the writing above of course has to be changed accordingly.
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You need to keep walking toward a Vision, even if not manifested yet.
Sometimes it is about fully letting go of something to experience a rebirth.
About being cracked open, torn to the core, open to our last cell. About feeling love and the absence of the object of love, both fully.
About saying everything that’s on our heart. Feeling all the ache, the memories, the days we thought of them out of nowhere, or because something in the wind or underneath the smile of a flower felt like their music.
About saying everything, until there is no more to say. To share. No more that’s still trapped in our lungs, chest, heart, within. To try everything, to try it from every angle and side, each possible windows of hope, of possibility, of remnants of what hasn’t been tried or said.
About knowing that all that was possible was done.
And then, the heart becomes free. Free from the regrets, liberated from the weight of what has been done, or not done before – because this time it did it right, beautifully, kindly, honestly and openly.
Sometimes, it is about doing and feeling it all until a layer of a soul contract is over, completed. Going as far as possible, to the end of a road, until there is absolutely nothing more to say, to live, to repeat or to learn. Nothing more to hope, nothing else to feel.
Sometimes, we need to go to the end of something, to see what’s on the other side of the wave.
We have to finish a moment of life, a pattern. A way of relating, a part of a story, to come back.
And so, this is when we are ready for a Rebirth.
You’re always here for a reason.
It’s always longer, less clear than you thought, for a reason.
It’s all working well every day, actually, also every time you wonder.
The hours know.
You’re always here for a reason.
Exactly where you are, right now, and this is right where you are meant to be.
It’s always longer than you thought, and more convoluted, and less clear, and there are detours and you always change your mind and spiral for a reason.
And they always come and go, come back and leave, for a reason.
And you’re exactly where you are meant to be.
And the wait is long, some days.
But the minutes know.
But you wonder if this is the right track.
You are on the right path because you always were, all those days, because there is only one path in a way and,
This road has been yours.
And those are your people, and those were your teachers, and those are your Soul and,
This story has been your path.
And this has been the way you travelled and right now again, you are travelling right.
And things change for a reason.
And life feels like a game, sometimes, it evolves and plays and learns until it knows.
You are here for a reason, and it is all unfolding or not unfolding for a reason.
And even you wondering if this is right track, is the right thing to do and all is well.
Yes it is often longer, and less clear than you thought.
And yes there were days when you thought it would be instant and fast, and that life would be a game for grown-ups, where all works well and simple and settles like it should be in a world of adults where people know where they are going to and, where boats moor and all that.
You couldn’t know about the game, and that life could push people that hard.
It is longer, and less clear, and seasons move this way or another and you can’t always know.
But trust the path, and the hours.
The speed of some days, the rainbows, and also the length of things and the wait, and the game of time and people and spaces we all play like guided dolls and,
Trust the unknown.
And life, and its spell, and the mystery of things and what takes time, and what you didn’t know and what you know now,
And the whole symphony of what has happened and was because,
This has been the way you travelled and right now again, you are travelling right.
Twin Flames ~ Stop To Try and Fix This Relationship : The Key Is You.
Repost from a year ago — This is a very important message for Twin Flames – the Key is you, the Key always was You.
While you can’t fully and on a committed manner accept yourself, and allow yourself to become the truth of who you are — your Twin Soul which actually is your GREATEST MIRROR will mirror this to you, over and over.
You’ll try to work on the relationship itself, to tell them things or move closer to them geographically even sometimes.
You’ll try to fix this by doing things that happen outside of yourself.
You’ll try to put your energy into improving the relationship. On some of your worse days, you’ll even blame them. Or, you’ll analyse their behaviour with you, or even in the world – thinking that it would all be different if THEY were different, thinking that if they could heal themselves, life would be great and you both would live a fairy tale.
You’ll investigate, you’ll research their own Whys and Hows. You’ll ask yourself things, to understand them.
You’ll even reach the conclusion that, they need to work more on themselves, to make your Love Story happen.
My tone is different today because there is something that we all need to understand.
You see, by doing all these things — you’ll seek endlessly outside of yourself, the resolution of an issue that forever found its deepest roots WITHIN.
BUT ALL THIS ISN’T THE TRUTH AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, THIS ISN’T THE KEY.
Because the Key is You.
My tone is harder today because there are things that need to stop now. We say and read “it’s 2017 so Twin Souls will come together”. We say sometimes, because we are Women, “The Masculine has to heal and has more work to do to meet us where we are”. “We say, it’s about to happen”, we read “now, it’s about them”.
We say all these things as if we were Modern Cindirellas, waiting.
We say all those things as if our lives depended on the kindness of outside golden sparks or of modern white witches.
Those prophecies of a cosmic Divine Order that would be responsible for our lives have to stop now.
The Masculine “being less evolved” is not the truth, and most importantly it has absolute no effect on our own lives and situations. It’s a trick from the mind that desires to know where is the roots of an issue and which always, ideally – seeks to find the roots of it outside of itself.
There are no Divine Miracles if you don’t participate in them, from within.
There is no outside authority in charge of causing the Reunion of all Twin Flames in 2017. No, instead the energies are there to PUSH YOU INTO BECOMING YOURSELF WHICH IS THE KEY, THE DOOR FOR THE REST.
Don’t rely on angels or on the Universe ONLY to make this happen. The Universe and your team in the higher realms are there to SUPPORT YOU & GUIDE YOU – but they can’t take the reigns of your life for you, if you don’t ask for their help or if you don’t follow through.
The planets are there for you and to trigger you into your own Rising – but YOU have to DECIDE to ride the waves.
My tone is harder today because there is something that we all need to understand.
THE ONLY REAL THING THAT YOU CAN DO IS TO COMMIT TO SEE WHO YOU ARE, LOVE WHO YOU ARE AND BECOME WHO YOU ARE.
It’s only that unfaillible, tall, strong, deeply committed and unchanging SELF-LOVE that you are going to give to Yourself that may change your outside situation.
Ok listen, if you want to see yourself in blue in the mirror, you are not going to clean the mirror over and over, to get a new one or even to say that this is the mirror’s fault? No, you will take your other clothes off and decide to wear BLUE.
WEAR BLUE, wear your truth, decide to wear Yourself.
Don’t blame, don’t try to fix the outside or to change it. THIS SPECIFIC OUTSIDE IS ONLY YOU, your Energy, in another body – you see.
Start by Wearing Blue, on a committed basis. Commit to Wearing Your Blue Out There – and the do whatever feels true from there.
And see your mirror responding back to You, by wearing Blue – too.