This piece of writing takes the example of a female person embodying most of the feminine energy of both parts. If the feminine energy is mostly represented in the male side, or another female person if the TF share the same gender, the writing above of course has to be changed accordingly.
It is said that when One changes, in any type of dynamics, the other side changes as well if they desire to remain present energetically. The other side has to adjust and grow, to keep dancing.
In many Twin Flame relationships and connections, it is the Feminine who goes through her “Falling” first and learns to embraces her depth fully. Her Divine partner is often times the greatest catalyst — forcing her to find emotional safety, peace and healing within, to find her personal truth in relationships and life in general, to find herself, to find her path and joy or even purpose. Also, ultimately, to release her attachment to an outcome in life in general… but most importantly in this given situation of the Twin Flame bond.
Magically, as she does so, she releases progressively and in time her attachment to receiving in the physical the attention and visible love of her Divine counterpart. She doesn’t stop feeling or loving, yet she stops needing, wanting, longing.
She releases her need to be with. Her desire to be only with him, and not others. She sees herself attracting new people and new potential romantic connections. She finds her energy again, back fully. She sees life resuming. Her inner feminine has healed enough to rest a little, to be able to shed a little less during the days… and so she can have more time, more energy, to embrace more of her drive, Masculine doing and building side, as before it all started.
She feels safe in life enough to be back, she has healed the hurt. She has recovered.
Yes her life has changed, transformed, people around are different and streets bear different names but, it is still her, with an essence clearly more revealed, brought to the Light, uncovered. She walks again with all of her strength, the stamina of before this Divine encounter brought up the dark and the light — but differently, higher, more magical and free.
As she has healed enough herself, because she went to the End of it, of a cycle or a pattern — she can detach and that is when things have the opportunity to shift.
As she has travelled to the end of a road, checked and double-checked that she has done all she could, expressed all of the words of a loving heart, used the magical tools of compassion, respect, kindness and forgiveness.
As she sees that she has gone to the end of a journey with Him, even cleaned the way of what was said and done before and when less aware, when she can really feel there is no more to do or say on that road and so a part of a Path can be left at rest happily and peacefully, with warmth in the heart even, no anger resentment and fear but warmth, peace and a feeling of completion… then things change.
She can truly Let Go, in beauty.
And when she does let go, a Void is felt on the other end of Things.
And this is when, the other side, the Counterpart… is given the biggest opportunity for their own heart opening, and saving grace.
And after, it is in the hands of the Divine mystery, in the hands of the magicians of soul contracts and of individual soul healings… They will catch the train or not, decide to feel at a deeper level and act on their own healing path, respond Yes to the inner call, to the reminder from within… or they will decide to pass their turn. This is for them to feel out, decide, and see.
Who knows, what lies in the hands of Magic.
But, she is Free.
The above piece of writing takes the example of a female person embodying most of the feminine energy of both parts. If the feminine energy is mostly represented in the male side, or another female person if the TF share the same gender, the writing above of course has to be changed accordingly.
4 thoughts on “When Dances Shift Melodies.”
OMGoddess is that ever beautiful and powerful! I feel I am there now…
Thank you so so very much . I have been on the TF journey since Oct 2011- we have been best friends since then. I am a 54 y/o DF and he a 37 y/o DM who is gay atm – and yet we have had much romance over the years and been absolutely inseperable. But thank you Sophie as your article is exactly where I am right now- and detached and setting myself free for the first time. Really letting go and reclaiming me.
So so grateful that you share your sentiments reflecting my position- this journey brings the absolute highs joys and light and love of a lifetime, to the depths of utter darkness, loneliness and shadows.
I pray now for what is for my highest good and the good of the planet. Thank you, blessings x
Thank you so much for this because it is exactly where I find myself today! Just this last Weekend I was able to make the final peaceful break with him. Our last words to each other were I love you and he had never said that before.
In the Rumi oracle deck by Alana Fairchild I then drew the card “right choice” (30 I believe) in which it Said
“With gratitude and trust I release all that which was not rightly mine.”
Those words….especially trust have given me much peace as I bask in rest and peace and the joy of new life.
The twin journey was my passion for 5 years.
Your article underscores the feeling of the card and affirms I am at the right place.
Nancy Ardell Atlanta GA
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I just found this website. Thank you so much for your wisdom. I feel a sense of freedom for the first time since this journey started.
I figured out how to not demand, I figured out how to not expect, I figured out how to not need, but I couldn’t figure out how to not want until I read this. It doesn’t mean I don’t love her or that I would not enjoy being with her. It just means my active wanting has ceased. I no longer feel a desire to fantasize about our union. This always confounded me before. I am so grateful for this truth. Thank you again.