The greatest gift we can offer someone, sometimes, is to not encourage and support anymore a certain type of their own behaviour.
It is to withdraw from a certain shared dynamics – which causes that the Other can’t find anymore, the room or space, that they were using to behave in a certain way. It is to not feed anymore a certain level of shared dynamics – so that people have the opportunity to evolve, grow and… eventually, if they actually embrace the opportunity, come back anew, latter on, and Realign elsewhere, at a new level.
Very often in Karmic Partnerships and Soul Contracts, the initial shared dynamics comes from, and feeds, the respective wounded parts of the Two Individuals. It is a dance between two energies, energies that are still on the path of healing and of reclaiming their highest selves.
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But as One grows and evolves, they decide that for their own well-being and self-love – a certain type of behaviour or pattern from the Other, or of dynamics between the Two, is no longer supported.
As One evolves, and therefore withdraws from the karmic / wounded thread and dynamics between the Two, they actually offer, almost unknowingly and unconsciously sometimes, room, space and opportunity for the Other to grow.
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Actually, even, things go both ways.
When one grows and therefore outgrows the current version of someone else – people organically go separate ways, a matter of two frequencies not being aligned anymore. A lack of alignment being generated, often, by the existence of Two different rhythms on a soul’s journey.
But when One grows, everything can change.
Because, by not giving room to the Other to express their karmic, lower-self, wounded traits anymore… they push them, knowingly or not, to Grow.
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