The greatest gift we can offer someone, sometimes, is to not encourage and support anymore a certain type of their own behaviour.
It is to withdraw from a certain shared dynamics – which causes that the Other can’t find anymore, the room or space, that they were using to behave in a certain way. It is to not feed anymore a certain level of shared dynamics – so that people have the opportunity to evolve, grow and… eventually, if they actually embrace the opportunity, come back anew, latter on, and Realign elsewhere, at a new level.
Very often in Karmic Partnerships and Soul Contracts, the initial shared dynamics comes from, and feeds, the respective wounded parts of the Two Individuals. It is a dance between two energies, energies that are still on the path of healing and of reclaiming their highest selves.
But as One grows and evolves, they decide that for their own well-being and self-love – a certain type of behaviour or pattern from the Other, or of dynamics between the Two, is no longer supported.
As One evolves, and therefore withdraws from the karmic / wounded thread and dynamics between the Two, they actually offer, almost unknowingly and unconsciously sometimes, room, space and opportunity for the Other to grow.
Actually, even, things go both ways.
When one grows and therefore outgrows the current version of someone else – people organically go separate ways, a matter of two frequencies not being aligned anymore. A lack of alignment being generated, often, by the existence of Two different rhythms on a soul’s journey.
But when One grows, everything can change.
Because, by not giving room to the Other to express their karmic, lower-self, wounded traits anymore… they push them, knowingly or not, to Grow.
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