“When I saw you I fell in love, and you smiled because you knew.” William Shakespeare.
““Conscious Sex” is when a Man enters a Woman with his soul.
He is not there to be the king of the castle or the number1 acrobat of the year.
He is there to give Her his energy and what He knows.
He is there to love her and honour her, as sacred task of Man.
Both are here to land sacredness on Earth, to ground love as the Heart into primal.
Both came here to embody Divine Force in its strength, in its infinite magic, in its wild, unlimited and ecstatic power and force and ground it into what’s Real.
He is there to give her the space where she reveals Herself, where she becomes God, life force, where she unites the Four Elements.
He is there to see and receive Her so much, that she just opens and melts into surrendering to Him.
He is there to surrender His warrior’s carapace in Her, he is there to become the softness of his given heart and welcome, through her, more of His own soul.
Both have come together to see how the Masculine and the Feminine become One.
He is there to show her, that at least here and now, she could let go and become She.
He is the explorer – longing to touch, to heal and to learn the deepest, most ancient and primal truth of his Empress, from the magical infinity of her temple space.”
– Written two years ago, happy to share again. ❤
We can feel love in our hearts, an infinite, unconditional, unlimited love for another… while setting our limits and boundaries in the physical, in order to find the right equilibrium, that sweet spot, specific to each connection – where the actual give & take feels harmonious, light, balanced, right.
With Others and through bonds with others, you will release certain layers of you that were “blocks” on the way to true, pure, unconditional love. Others will help you feel, bring to the light and release Layers of you that were in fact unnecessary for your moving forward.
Those layers sometimes were only yours – but also, sometimes layers of trauma caused by the karmic stage of the Twin Flame relationship. A negative imprint they left on you. A memory which stays, never flies away. A feeling of rejection, deep abandonment, betrayal or fear. A deeper wound that can only come up and be worked through in the context of closeness or intimacy.
Those layers can’t be released and worked through by thinking or intellectually. They are identified when doing something, connecting or participating in life as a whole. It is like, Wholeness is only tested in the contexts of Sharing Space.
In all cases, you will always Trust. Any step, no matter how it looks like, is always You releasing more of what’s no necessary & progressively basking more and more into the Sun.
You coming back Home, to Yourself… in all ways.
As a consequence, you will allow your journey without judging it. Knowing that nothing, is not synchronistic. Remembering, that on this path there are no coincidences.
That all has been orchestrated… for the final meeting, the ultimate dance, the lightest, and deepest, Homecoming.
“This is what I knew when we first crossed path. I just knew. It’s hard to describe. I stared into his eyes but I actually dived into myself. Nothing to do with lust or attraction or even what we describe as “love”. This was Knowing. This was ONENESS.”
It was possible, eventually, to heal the Pain of the Twin Flame connection on a long-term and solid basis, and to step out of the stage of Karma, fully. The impossible made possible, see. The reward of such deep work – its name was Freedom
Sometimes, some remain out of deep connections because it is hard to both connect deeply, and to not long for.
Hard to intertwine profoundly without melting – hard to share, hear and listen without relying on.
Hard to encourage the rising of the Self through something external, unpredictable, somehow bigger than it – without feeling that fear of losing the Self at the same time.
Hard to connect deeply, and feel – without feeling at all this wave of attachment, of longing. Hard to give, while not knowing what will be received – hard to trust, without being able to know for sure what is trustworthy.
In truth, it is difficult to connect deeply without fear. Without that fear of losing one’s strength, one’s direction. One’s heart.
It is difficult to feel things within -within that beautiful sacred palace of love that we’ve built in efforts and time – because of an unpredictable external.
It is difficult to feel disappointment – without erecting walls as a response. Without going back up in the castle of those queens & kings, living in inner, protected, alone joy.
It is difficult perhaps, but where is Joy if not in connecting, deeply, and feeling seen, all facets
Where do we learn if on our own, if up and locked in that castle. If we choose in this life to swim outside of the pool, and with an armour of ‘already know, already been there, personally out of the practise of the edge, personally out of the experience of diving’.
It is difficult yes, but you might wonder – what was this all about, what was the point, if not in sharing love & learning how to love right?